Seat me next to the irritating talker, please

Quiet starers are just awkward - with irritating talkers one at least has an opportunity to learn something. I mean... They irritate one for a particular reason, and if we could just identify what that thing is we might be able to learn from it. Hopefully it's not as simple to me as just an obnoxious voice, but if they have a standpoint I don't agree with or base their opinions and beliefs after a logic I don't have... Then I can see something from their eyes instead of running around the world thinking I've got it all figured out.